Strange to say, but sometimes it seems to me that weddings have little in common with marriages. I've been thinking about that now and then for the past week, ever since our granddaughter Jordan married her sweetheart, Patrick. They came together in a lovely and touching ceremony that focused on them — two young, earnest and excited people sharing a pledge to spend the rest of their lives together. I love weddings, especially when the couples are so clearly in love. There is so much hope, so much optimism and so much happiness. Nearly everybody is on their best behavior at a wedding.
A recent column about traveling South Dakota north of Highway 34 and west of the Missouri River on news assignments drew a quick and positive response from a teacher/newspaper friend who grew up in that part of the country. Jomay and I worked together for a while at the newspaper. She has returned to teaching. She appreciated especially the mention of the Red Scaffold area of the Cheyenne River Indian Reservation. I once had lunch there with the Head Start class following a blizzard.
Back in August, I saw a bunch of fallen leaves on the lawn and told people it was a disturbing sign that fall was near. I was premature. A better sign of the arrival of fall came day before yesterday when I winterized my boat. That's it. Summer over. The boat goes in the garage until spring. No big deal for landlubbers, but a significant change of seasons for a river rat. I have an inboard-outboard motor in my boat. I keep the craft in an unheated garage. That means I need to winterize things before the temperature drops below freezing.
Nancy and I don't regularly travel west on Highway 34, so naturally when we took that route recently from Pierre to Deadwood, I found along the way many memories of times Greg Latza and I did story-photo packages back in our newspaper days. Nancy and I traveled to Deadwood for the annual Festival of the Book. My kid sister, baby brother and I presented a panel on storytelling during the opening day of the festival. I started to write "taught,'' but who would I be kidding?
Viewed from a hilltop on the north edge of Chamberlain, the "blood moon'' eclipse last weekend lived up to its hype. From our vantage point, along the road that winds through the Roam Free Park above St. Joseph's Indian School, we had a clear view. Only a few wispy clouds threatened, and they were late to the party. On the hilltop, we were above most of the artificial lights of the town. Only light from the stars gleamed, from horizon to horizon. Townspeople clustered along the path, some with telescopes or cameras with telephoto lenses the size of small cannons.
The first time I met Walt Miller, he was pretty new to South Dakota's legislative process. The former governor, lieutenant governor, speaker of the House and majority leader of the House became an institution in matters of state politics and public policy. When he died Monday, at the age of 89, we lost a wealth of legislative knowledge and history. We also lost a decent, hard-working man who believed in South Dakota and its people. Even so, when I met Miller late in 1969, I was a brand-new legislative reporter and he was still a pretty green lawmaker.
When Nancy and I moved into our first home in Pierre, her dad gave us a hammock for the backyard. Check that. He gave us part of a hammock. He gave us, laughing so hard his ample belly shook, a pair of chains to which we could hook a hammock, if we found one to buy. He sometimes did things like that. You remember me talking about the guy? He was a self-made handyman, and he helped us immensely with many, many home-improvement projects over the years. We would have been lost without him.
If I were to say "Hooray for Sen. Bernie Sanders,'' some people would think I've taken sides in the presidential race. Not at all. I'm registered as a "no preference'' voter. I don't vote in primary elections. Besides, political experts probably would tell you Sanders, a Democrat from Vermont, is a long-shot.
When we bought our home 43 years ago, I failed to check to see if the lights worked in the upstairs closets. Turned out the upstairs closets didn't have lights. "Hey, there's no light switch in here,'' Nancy said as we began moving clothing into a closet after closing the deal. I looked. "Hey, there's no light.'' Details, right? Who would build a house without lights in the closets, right? Apparently at least one home builder back at the turn of the century—not this century, the one before this. The early 1900s, you know?
I grew up believing my dad might be the only Democrat in Lyman County. That wasn't true, but it sure seemed like Republicans surrounded him. And, while I know my dad had strong convictions about where the country should be headed, I also know he was kind of contrary. Another farmer once told him something like this: "Hank, if everyone else was a Democrat, you'd just have to be a Republican.'' Perhaps I inherited some of my dad's streak. Perhaps that's one of the reasons I'm not a fan of most Minnesota sports teams. Vikings, Twins, Wild, Timberwolves, even Golden Gophers.