As we grow older and have families, a fair number of us are shocked to discover that we've become our parents. Ever happen to you? You're going along in your day, dealing with the son or daughter, getting exasperated for whatever reason and suddenly you listen to what you've just blurted out. Wow. That's your mom talking. Or your dad. It works both ways.
Long ago, I promised myself (and every other, um, moderately talented prep basketball player out there) that I'd devote a minimum of one column a year to my high-school hard-court career. No time like the New Year to get that out of the way, what with the holiday tournaments and start of college conference play and all. Besides, while LeBron James and Kobe Bryant and Stephen Curry get all sorts of media attention, who speaks for Mel Counts and Henry Finkel and Greg Kite?
Because my parents had a deep appreciation for the power of books and the value of reading, my mom let me join several book-of-the-month clubs when I was in high school. To this day, I own some wonderful old books because of my club memberships. When Nancy and I were boxing things up to move from our old house last fall, I emptied books from shelf after shelf in the basement. The need to pause and remember the pleasure I took from reading those books made the task take longer than it should have. Eventually, I had the books packed away.
As the old year winds down, a few notions that never quite made it into a column. Presidential politics I listen to the candidates for the nation's highest office and wonder what happened to restraint and courtesy. My cousin, the monsignor, once said of the writing Woster brothers that, "they never have an unpublished thought.'' Too true, I'm afraid. With most of the current crop of candidates, I listen and think, "I wonder if they know they don't have to verbalize every half-formed thought that crosses their minds.''
Now that Thanksgiving has passed, the Woster household is decorating for Christmas. Yeah, we're stubborn that way. We aren't completely post-Thanksgiving-means-think-Christmas people. For example, Nancy has picked up a few gifts, and we've talked about others. But the turkeys and pilgrims stay out until after Thanksgiving, and we haven't dialed in any holiday music channels yet.
In the late spring of 2004, Nancy had surgery for breast cancer. Radiation treatments followed in the summer. Eleven years later, she shows no sign of recurrence. If we'd known things would work out that way, we'd not have worried so much through the summer and into the fall and winter that year.
The background image on my laptop screen is a photograph of our 7-year-old granddaughter wearing a bicycle helmet and pink flip-flops and posing atop a pile of fake rocks. The...
My sainted mother loved the Christmas season — for all the joy and celebration and bright lights and uplifting music, sure, but also for the shopping that is almost an obligation of the season. Let's be honest. My mother liked shopping all year long. She delighted at window shopping when we'd make a trip to Mitchell or Sioux Falls or, once or twice in my life, to Kansas City to visit my dad's older brother and his family.
The holiday season is a poor time to complain about anything in a usually bountiful world, but sometimes I wonder if the person who manufactures strings of Christmas lights is...
Even before I started working for the state Department of Public Safety back in 2009, I often wondered what possessed travelers to drive or ride without using seat belts. After I began working for DPS and started receiving traffic crash reports from the Highway Patrol, I wondered ever more what people were thinking who traveled without buckling up. It's such a simple protection. The weighted results from the Office of Highway Safety's 2014 seat belt survey in South Dakota shows 68.9 percent of the travelers observed had buckled up.