The month of May is nearly over, and I forgot to mention that it's National Nurses Month. That's pretty important where I live, because I married a nurse. It comes in pretty handy when you're raising a couple of rambunctious boys to have a full-time registered nurse on staff. "Is there a doctor in the house? No, but we have a nurse." That will do nicely when the older son, age 8 or 9, free-wheels his new bicycle down the sidewalk on the hill next to the high school, can't get the brakes to work and crashes into the lawn, driving one end of the handlebar into his cheek.
Everyone in this part of the country has a Harmon Killebrew story, and his recent death gave many people a chance to share their favorite tale. When I mentioned the former Minnesota Twins baseball player at the office the day after he died, a co-worker looked mildly confused. "You know who Harmon Killebrew is, don't you?" I asked. "Some baseball player," she said, a bit uncertainly, giving me the opening I needed to tell my Killebrew story. I have never liked the Twins; I should say that up front.
Last Saturday morning, the activation ceremony for the 200th Engineer Company of the South Dakota National Guard drew so many people the cars and pickups were parked down where we live a couple of blocks from the high school in Pierre. The evening before, I'm told, the folks in Chamberlain held their own sendoff for the Guard members. They say my big brother, Jim, was the master of ceremonies and did a good job. I'm sure he did. Jim is good at those things.
I have a granddaughter in Brookings who just finished her freshman year in high school and who simply loved being on stage in plays and skits. How that came to be, I'm not quite sure. She's a remarkable young woman, for sure. But as a young thing, she was too shy to say her name in front of a class of preschool children, much less talk and move and sing on stage. She changed, and one of the few downsides to my day job is that it is difficult to buzz over to Brookings in the middle of the week to catch a play or a concert.
Getting older. Kids have been gone from home for years and years. Things should be pretty quiet for Nancy and me these days. I guess that's why we took off last Friday for Brookings, met our daughter and her husband and our younger son, climbed in a car together, picked up our granddaughter Lara from high school and drove to Vermillion to attend a hooding ceremony for graduates of the law school.
I guess I can thank the paper carrier. I opened the front door this morning and looked for the daily newspaper. I wasn't surprised that it wasn't on the porch. (The carrier is often challenged to hit the porch, even though when I stand at the curb and look at our house, the front porch seems like a pretty big target.) I was surprised when I couldn't see it on the steps or in the grass by the sidewalk or somewhere down toward the street. I found my paper around the side of the porch, nestled in the rocks under the dogwood plant.
It's Mother's Day weekend. Naturally enough, that starts me thinking of Cub Scouts. It's a straightforward connection. Cub Scouts is the last time in my life when I was able to give my mother a really cheesy home-made present that she had to pretend to really like. It's been a while since Cub Scouts for me. I participated in the program as a dad when our son Scott was a Cub, but I don't have particularly upbeat memories of the weekend camping trip a bunch of Cub Scouts and their dads endured down on the White River bottom south of Presho one spring.
Ten years ago at this time, I don't think I'd ever heard of Osama bin Laden. Now the entire world knows he is dead. His name was on numerous intelligence reports a decade ago, months before the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks on the World Trade Center and the Pentagon. I didn't have a need to know that sort of intelligence before the terrorist attacks.
Most years by the end of April, I'd have seen at least a half-dozen track meets, maybe more. Know how many I've seen this spring? None. If I'd known April was going to be mostly winter, I'd have tried harder to make the Winner meet, the first of the season for Chamberlain's Cubs and several other area schools. We went to Winner to start our season when I was in track in the 1960s. It was early and chilly, but it was always a fun meet. I had a conflict the day of the Winner meet this year. No big deal. Plenty of other meets.
Years and years ago -- and when I say that I'm taking a trip not only to the 1970s but also to the season of winter in those far gone times -- a strong and stubborn cold snap grabbed South Dakota by the throat in early January and didn't let go until the last few days of February. I don't remember the year. It might have been 1975, when the Legislature adjourned into the teeth of a blizzard and those who weren't out of town early in the morning of the last day were around Pierre for an extended weekend.